The original theory (way back when) was that a same-sex dæmon indicated a bi or homosexual person. But throughout the years the community has come across more "exceptions" than rules, so clearly that theory was shot out the window. No one knows for sure what causes a dæmon of the same sex, but it's likely different for everyone. Don't worry; it doesn't mean you're hiding some deep dark secret from yourself.

Being that your dæmon's your soul, it doesn't make sense that they'd love someone and you not. The dæmon will often reflect your true feelings even if you try to ignore them. It's possible that your dæmon could be attracted to the personality of another dæmon without you liking their human, but unlikely. And if it's the human directly your dæmon's keen on, there's no denying that somewhere deep down you're attracted as well.

Yes. Of course I can, but not the same way I see the computer screen that's in front of me now. He's not physical in any way, shape, or form (unless you count me). I don't see him with my eyes so much as I see him with my imagination, in my mind's eye. But I don't think about it anymore. I see him so clearly he might as well be tangible. A few people are under the impression that you learn some dimensional trick with your eyes, and then see your dæmon clear as day. But you can't.

You talk to your dæmon every day, my friend. Everyone communicates with their dæmon on a subconscious level. Without this they'd be mere animals being run by instincts and impulses. Knowing your dæmon just makes these conversations more direct. Remember, he or she is your internal self: your heart, soul, and conscience. That faint voice that you think of as yourself, and nothing more.

The dæmon cannot be smarter than you (when it comes to earthly knowledge) because they are confined to your mind and have only experienced what you have in life. If you know something, they know it, and if they learned something, you also know it deep down. I believe, however, that the dæmon acts as a partial link to our subconscious, and thus may be quicker to retrieve supressed knowledge than we are. They reside more closely to that part of our memory which remains buried.

for what they might do... well, it depends on the situation. If the person's having intercourse just for physical pleasure, the dæmon will not interact with the other dæmon, but they'll still appear to be enjoying themselves immensely (e.g. nuzzling the bedspread, smiling, rolling around, purring or making other sounds... basically looking like a cat hyped up on catnip).

This is covered in the Introduction, but it's something I'm commonly asked. Here's the answer I'd give you: There's one thing people commonly ask me in emails, and I suppose it would be helpful if I talked about it here.. Your dæmon's name. People will often tell me "I don't even know what his name is yet." And my answer is, "Well.. dæmons don't naturally have a name.

There's no one way to figure this out, but here's my best advice: First of all, you need to be able to see him or her. If you haven't been able to yet, you might want to read the answer to 'Can you see your dæmon?' and numbers 3 and 5 here. An important point to remember is that you must imagine your dæmon's physical body to learn what animals they turn into. I don't believe there's any sort of mental trick... you just have to do it.

My position on this one changed. I originally said they wouldn't, because every aspect of the animal form (even the thickness of the coat) said something about you. But I think that was too idealistic. The animal itself and other immutable characteristics are enough to give an impression of who you are. Though they are the minority, some say their dæmon's coat changes with the seasons.

A dæmon isn't born from another dæmon... A person's physical characteristics are determined by gene shuffling from both the parents, sure, but it's not the same way with the child's dæmon, because he or she is not merely a physical extension like an arm or leg... Your soul is something unique to you, and it's not really another soul that gives birth to it. You mold and shape your own self, nature, and personality.

I've been asked this question more than once, and I think the best advice I gave was directed to a member of my forum. Here's a modified version of what I told them: I've never drifted from Rookie for a period of time, so I can only give you what seems like the most logical advice - not speak from experience. First of all, remember that you can't "lose" your dæmon. Whether or not you see or directly speak to yours, he will always be with you... he'll always be a part of you.

The answer to this varies from person to person. Since the dæmon's form has to be imagined, you can still imagine the dæmon "changing" even after you are settled. In a perfect world the dæmon being settled would mean the form is settled, too, but since they aren't physical, it's not always that simple. Rookie has been settled for almost a year now, but he still becomes something else every day, even if for a short period of time. Still, he is the definition of settled.

It was clear to me from the beginning that occasionally someone might acquire a daemon of the same sex. What might that mean? I don't know everything it might mean; it could mean something about their own sexuality, or it might mean something quite different. It's one of the many things I don't know fully about my world. Similarly with how daemons are born. There wasn't actually any part of the story that depended on my studying daemonic gynaecology, so I didn't go into it.

Yes, it can. But make sure to note that a wolf puppy dæmon says different things about a person's soul than an adult wolf dæmon would, etc. A dæmon settling in the form of a young animal generally means that person is overly innocent, in the sense that they lack the capacity to injure, lack worldliness... Perhaps they are forever naive about the world. A young dæmon is likely to be very inquisitive, open (but also shy), and enthusiastic.

The answer is no. Your dæmon's intuition and your own can help create the image of someone else's soul, but you are not truly seeing them, even if you know what animal it is. If dæmons could see one another as bright as day, I would've noticed by now, since I speak with Rookie all the time. =P We can only envision them in our mind's eye, but unlike with our own dæmon, we can't be sure about what the other dæmon is saying or doing. Only its human would know.

frum Jews, we strive to observe as many mitzvos as possible. Some decide not to act on their sexual feelings and choose to be celibate. Others feel that they need intimate sexual contact with another person; so they kiss, hug, and caress, may touch in ways that lead to orgasm (such as mutual masturbation), and may also have oral sex.

A member of my forum asked this question, which I found pretty interesting... I answered with this: If you're talking about in Lyra's world, the answer is 'Yes, of course.' That's just one of the disadvantages to having a corporeal soul... it's tangible, and vulnerable, and can get injured. In our own world, dæmons can cut one another, but it's more symbolic than anything.

No. Everyone only has one dæmon. Think about it logically. Can a person have two souls, two consciences? One is plenty sufficient and able to mold into anything you need. The dæmon represents our very nature, and does so deftly with a single form. Two dæmons would just give a mixed message, and yours isn't there to confuse you or argue with itself.

You should get any insert depending on the size of your penis (read my PRODUCT GUIDE for help deciding which one), and you'll probably prefer Butt, Mouth or Non-Descript orifices over the Lady orifice.

quot;Va-yar Elokim et kol asher asah v-hinei tov meod" (Bereshis 1:31) ("And G-d saw all that He had made, and found it very good." Genesis 1:31). Every person is created in the image of G-d (be-tzelem Elokim, Bereshis 1:27 and 9:6). We do not understand why G-d has created us this way (whether it is genetic or acquired, the Torah does not express any view) and why G-d created others with different characteristics.

I use the term 'dæmon' because it was His Dark Materials that led me to meeting Rookie and realizing how much he means to me. Also, our dæmons follow some of the basic rules laid out in HDM, such as changing when we're younger and eventually settling, being a constant companion and guide, often being the opposite sex, acting as our conscience, etc. But Pullman didn't sit down and think about real-life applications for his creation.

Yes. Typically there are several gay/lesbian/bi members at any given time. Discrimination based on sexual orientation is not tolerated and specific procedures are place to deal with harassment.

To answer the first question, I'm gonna quote myself from the dæmon forum: "With the settling issue... Rano is going to settle eventually, whether he desires to or not. It may take some dæmons longer than others to settle... but it happens to everyone (except maybe people with serious physiological problems).

I've seen this asked a few times and figured I might as well voice my opinion on it. We can't say for sure, but this is what seems most likely to me... I believe that, generally, they do not. Humans have genitals to urinate and reproduce, as do animals. That is their sole physical function. But dæmons do neither of those things, so such body parts would serve no purpose.

The following explanation is taken from my reply to a poll, wherein the question was 'Is it possible for dæmons to take a human form'?: I voted No. I mean, our dæmons aren't physical, in case anyone forgot. We imagine their bodies. We can see ours as a human, a rock, a plant... anything we want! So why even bother making a poll? The question is, COULD they become a human in Lyra's world/if they were corporeal? I strongly believe the answer is no.

The answer is no. They probably won't be any more alike then the dæmons of other siblings. The one example I can think of is Cat and Jen. Cat is a red fox, Jen is a chihuahua. Sure, they're both canines, but the dad's dæmon is a border collie. So really, the dad and Jen have more in common than Jen and Cat. Fraternal twins were just in the mom at the same time. They didn't come from the same zygote (fertilized egg), so they aren't genetically identical.

You're more than welcome to attend the seminar, but we want you to know that most of the research on which our program is based was conducted with heterosexual couples and our program is designed generally with heterosexuals in mind, so we're not sure how effective our program would be for same-sex couples, although we're sure that some of it would be of interest and value.

It doesn't matter, if you have the aptitude and the right attitude, so long as you are willing to work with a partner of the opposite sex for Hyarama rituals. back to top

Sacred Sex is just as valuable for gays and lesbians as it is for straight people. There are specific exercises to help increase the yang (masculine) energy for lesbian couples and the yin (feminine) energy for gay couples. Just discovered your web site, and find it to be very informative and well presented. But I am wondering if you have ever included gay/lesbian couples in your workshops? If so, was it a successful experience overall , or would you suggest another tantric school.