A.: We're not looking for you to be an identical physical match of the few attributes sprinkled throughout SEX LOUNGE - even if you were, this wouldn't mean you'd be Derek because 'being' Derek is more than just a physical image. So, learn a little bit about Derek on the web site - or the book, if you have it - to get an idea of the type of man Derek is. Then add your own personality.

A.: To have fun, to learn a little more about romance, to be the heartthrob you were always meant to be, to win fabulous prizes, to earn bragging rights with your friends, to show the world your romantic side, to get exposure for you or your business ... those are a few ideas that come to mind. Why do you want to enter the contest? Hmmm. Maybe we should've added that as an essay question ...

A.: That'd be nice, but ... the cover has already been created. And, more importantly, we have no control over the SEX LOUNGE cover. The publisher decides which model or photo they want to use, as well as what they want the cover to look like. In fact, many authors have no idea what their covers are going to look like until the final cover flats show up in their mailbox.

A.: No. While you'd have our undying gratitude if you read SEX LOUNGE, it is not a prerequisite for entering the contest.

A.: First, we'd suggest you visit the SEX LOUNGE page for an overview of the book and read the excerpt. Then, once you think you know the type of man Derek is, what he???d say or do and how he???d say it, you???re ready. Simply dial 214-615-6044 x2913 and follow the instructions to record the excerpt there. Introduce yourself by saying, "This is (first name + age).

Most of our cards are offered in boy or girl versions. If, by chance, you ordered envelopes in advance and your little girl turned out to be a little boy... Don't worry. You'll only have to pay for the envelopes you use. Simply choose an alternative card and we'll complete your order.

A.: You must be male, you must be 21 years old or older, and you must agree to the rules to participate.

A.: The same criteria will be used at each stage of judging. Meaning, when Rachelle Chase chooses the weekly Dereks, when site visitors vote for their favorite Derek, and when the celebrity judges pick the winners, the following criteria will be used:

You may have sex if it is comfortable for you. You are not radioactive, and your partner is in no danger from the radiation treatments or the cancer. If you are a woman of childbearing age and have sex during treatment, you must use some type of birth control. Your doctor can help you decide what kind of birth control is best for you. If you need to talk with someone about other sexual health concerns, you may schedule an appointment with a social worker.

We're always on the look-out for terrific new finds, and we also need to know if you've suffered at a place that we list in our directory, so please write to us.

Our Chart School will teach you about some of our more complex charts and options as you get comfortable with the basics

Reading music is important for playing the harp. If you don't know how to read music, it is something that you can definitely learn. The Teach Yourself To Play The Folk Harp book starts with the assumption that you don't know anything about the harp or how to read music. It teaches you, step by step, everything you'll need to know. It begins with basic musical concepts, such as note values and names, and the treble clef.

Some psychologists and other therapists may specialize in sex therapy or couples counseling. Sex therapists in the United States are credentialed by The American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors and Therapists, (AASECT). This association provides a referral service by calling 1 (804) 644-3288 or by connecting to their web site at www.aasect.org. You might also get information and a referral from your primary care doctor, urologist or gynecologist.

The psychological services relating to sex re-assignment are obviously designed to explore one’s options. Since beginning a treatment of hormone therapy alters body structure and mass, this should be considered permanent and done only after careful thought and discussion. Surgical changes, which are the final step in a sex re-assignment, are naturally permanent.

A.: SEX LOUNGE contains minimal physical description information about Derek. Why? Because readers should form an image of Derek in their minds that's unique to them. What Derek does or says, how he acts, the general impression the reader gets about him as they read the page, all contributes to what Derek "looks" like. That's why any man has the potential to be Derek.

Sexual relationships and intimacy are important and fulfilling aspects of your life that should continue after ostomy surgery. Your attitude is a key factor in re-establishing sexual expression and intimacy. A period of adjustment after surgery is to be expected. Sexual function in women is usually not impaired, while sexual potency of men may sometimes be affected, usually only temporarily. Discuss any problems with your physician and/or ostomy nurse.

Every other spring, the NCMI hosts a workshop on single particle reconstruction and post-processing (at least we have for a number of years thru March 2007). This workshop covers all of the basics of performing a CTF corrected single particle reconstruction and analyzing the results, and historically has been free of charge (though you must cover your own travel expenses). Check the NCMI webserver for more details on the next available workshop.

That's the beauty of our Live Events. You can ask all those questions you wanted to ask about the wine you're tasting without being embarassed, because you're watching from home. No intimdation from sitting next to so-called "experts".

Windows users need to download and install the MathType fonts available free on our web site. Alternatively, both Mac and Windows users can download our free MathType 30-day trial which will install the fonts and work as a better Equation Editor even when the 30 days are up.

In all areas of baby shopping we offer neutral as well as gender specific choices. In certain instances, especially with relation to clothing, you may wish to specify style 'A' if your baby is a boy or style 'B' if it is a girl and we will arrange to send these extra items to you once all is revealed.

Most insurance plans generally do not pay for the psychological and medical expenses relating to a sex change. Unfortunately, these services are not considered medically necessary by most states or by the insurance industry. Moreover, the expenses can be considerable given the cost of psychological treatment, hormones and possible surgery. Because this is typically an extended process, costs are often spread over several years and many practitioners use a sliding scale for payment of services.

Sexual activity can be resumed within a month after a radical prostatectomy. I tell my patients to resume sexual activity as soon as they feel an interest and when their urinary control is adequate for sexual activity. Usually, erections do not begin to return spontaneously until 3 to 6 months, and they may continue to improve for up to 36 month after surgery. with Viagra-like medications.

A.: As the writer, Rachelle already has an image of Derek in her mind. Now, she wants to see who readers think Derek is. And we're almost willing to bet it'll be totally different than hers. Though at the end of the contest, she might share who best represented Derek to her... :-)

Richard called her up and told her. That's why she came out. Richard brought her out to Seattle because he didn't like the goings-on between Derek and Meredith. And not because it was an attending and an intern. He didn't like it because he likes Addison and he feels a responsibility to look after Meredith. Because Meredith and Derek were the first. They broke the taboo. And because they kept it a secret.

Anne Lawrence, M.D. is a transsexual physician who has a lot of useful things to say on this subject, with many useful articles and photographs. This is a rare opportunity to get an evaluation of SRS from someone who is both a transsexual and a peer to the surgeons. The Unabridged Guide to Zen And The Art Of Post-Operative Maintenance is a very complete guide to preparation for surgery, and life afterwards.

There is an online registry at www.iowasexoffenders.com that allows users to search for sex offenders by entering in their zip code or other identifying information. On or after July 1, 1995 , an individual is required to register whom : 1) has been convicted or adjudicated of a criminal offense against a minor, sexual exploitation, or a sexually violent crime, 2) was on probation, parole, or work release status, or 3) was incarcerated on or after July 1, 1995 .

Obviously very rough sexual activity should be avoided until and genital piercing is fully healed. Gentle or normal sexual activity should be avoided for at least 3-4 days even when condoms and dental dams are used. If you opt not to use such protection, sex should be avoided completely for 3-4 weeks.