Often people ask what makes pastoral counseling different than other therapy. One answer is that we encourage the whole person in our work: body, mind, and spirit. We do not operate only on the medical model of illness and pathology. Sometimes our problems and challenges are physical and often mental, but many times they are spiritual. Pastoral counseling is a unique form of psychotherapy which uses spiritual resources as well as psychological understanding for healing and growth.

Pastoral Counseling is generally used for both pastoral counseling and pastoral psychotherapy. Technically though there is a difference. Technically speaking pastoral counseling is brief and focuses on an identified issue; “My parent just died,” “I lost my job and need some support,” “I’m thinking about changing jobs,” etc.

Pastoral Counseling is a specialized form of ministry which integrates the rich resources of theology, faith and behavioral sciences to provide hope and healing of mind, body and spirit.

Counseling or psychotherapy is the process where someone seeks help for problems of an emotional nature from a trained professional in a confidential setting. By establishing a positive, trusting relationship, the therapist will work with you to learn how to cope with the problem by learning new skills and/or different ways of looking at situations. In the beginning stage of therapy, your therapist will ask about your concerns and goals to gain a deeper understanding of you.

When the popularity of the pastoral counseling movement increased in the 1960s, the counselors who worked at pastoral counseling agencies were ordained clergy who wanted to take the art of care and counseling one step out of the traditional medical model. Today pastoral counseling centers are multidisciplinary, inter faith groups with skilled counselors including psychologists, social workers, marriage and family therapists, as well as pastoral counselors.

Life coaching deals with the present and future. It does not examine the past but instead creates your future. Many of my clients have found the coaching I provide to be therapeutic, but it is not therapy. Counseling and psychotherapy usually deal with problems and healing. It entails working with the past as well as the present. Also, life coaching is not considered a mental health service per se and is therefore not covered by health insurance.

I do trancework. I am skilled at a variety of trance-based modalities such as Waking Dreams, Focused Trance Thoughtforms, Hypnosis, Guided Imagery, Meditation, Hyperempria, Creative Visualization, Neurolinguistic Programming, Active Imagination, and other approaches. I don't do counselling work per se nor do I do psychotherapy. What I do is more akin to coaching or mentoring utilizing focused trance.

Counseling helps people deal with particular problems in day-to-day living. The counselor works with you to identify problems, to set realistic goals, and to develop skills in problem solving, coping, and interpersonal relations. Psychotherapy is a more intensive process that promotes emotional awareness and psychological development. The process can strengthen one’s sense of confidence, self-acceptance, and responsibility in daily life.

Health insurance companies cause the biggest problems with confidentiality. When you authorize me to bill your health insurance company, you also authorize me to answer their questions, and most managed care companies ask many questions about mental health treatment. What happens to your privacy after the information gets to the insurance company is anybody's guess. Insurance companies routinely share information with each other, and many employers consider health records when hiring.

Most people seek out pastoral counselors because they want someone to respect their individual values and to take a holistic view of life that integrates body, mind and spirit. Pastoral Counselors are certified mental health professionals who have in-depth religious and/or theological training and thus can address psychological and spiritual issues. Pastoral counseling is not a disorder-focused discipline and people do not have to be sick, weak or dysfunctional to receive help.

Pastoral counselors certified by NC and the American Association of Pastoral Counselors must abide by the codes of ethics of those bodies. Confidentiality may be broken only as provided by law. Generally these exceptions include dangerousness to self or others; abuse of children, the elderly, and the disabled; and a court order.

counseling session. Pastoral counseling addresses most of the same issues as secular counseling, but there are differences. One main difference is that pastoral counseling is a ministry. Pastoral counselors are representatives of one or more faith communities and as such serves as a channel through with the care of communities is offered to those in need of help. Pastoral counseling’s identity comes out its affiliation with a faith community.

The best time to seek counseling or therapy is before your problems or symptoms have become too severe. This will give you the best chance of feeling better quickly and preventing more complicated problems. Even today, many people still feel a sense of stigma or shame around seeking help. Just about everybody can benefit from therapy at some point in his or her life.

Historically, counseling referred to help with everyday problems and psychotherapy was used to describe treatment for mental illness. Today, these terms are used interchangeably. Lakeview Center's therapists have degrees in psychology, psychiatry, social work, or counseling, but we all work with a wide range of problems using a similar approach. (See our approach to therapy). Pharmacotherapy is the use of medication to address emotional difficulties.

While these three terms are used randomly and is more of a matter of semantics rather than clinical meaning and there are major overlaps between these three practice modalities, there are some differences in my understanding that I would like to share with you. Psychotherapy tends to be associated with a process of psychological treatment that is longer-term and open ended.