For some, the idea of swinging brings to mind visions of middle aged men with comb over’s, polyester shirts opened to reveal gold chain covered pot bellies, paired with their equally garish, make-up plastered wives, wearing skin tight, animal print micro minis, thankfully this outdated characterization, is finally being put to rest. Swingers cross all social, political, financial, racial and religious barriers.

No. People do not attend the Overlook parties in order to get laid. They come to play, socialize, meet new people and beat on folks. Often times you'll see a couple arrive together and play separately with others. This is about as close to "swinging" as you'll see at the Overlook.

Guests at Desire enjoy their privacy and see their vacation here as an opportunity to be themselves; they can dress sexy, dress up for theme nights, enjoy clothing-optional areas and partake in activities at which they feel completely comfortable. DESIRE appeals to liberated, upscale vacationers, nudists and swingers. The ambience attracts a wide variety of guests, giving the resort a wonderful mix and personality. As a general rule, guests come to Desire to:

All kinds of people. Swingers come from all walks of life, all races, all incomes. One common bond is that they are interested in exploring sexual fantasies, they are honest with themselves and others, and they tend to communicate better with their partners than the average couple.

There are single female swingers, but they are so scarce that they can often be jealously horded by the swingers that already know them and will often have a waiting list of potential partners.. The solution is often to think laterally and look at other possible solutions. For example if you are looking for a single lady to "interact" mainly with the female half of your partnership it might be easier to find a couple with a bi-female and a male partner who is happy to watch the action.

Yes, but virtually all of them are part-time efforts run by generally well-meaning people, often as a bit of a hobby...

Relationships, reportedly have generally been improved with swinging. It is a shared activity that promotes understanding, intimacy and communications. Swinging can remove inhibitions imposed by society, breaks up the "routine" and removes the need of role playing. Encourages honesty between couples.

Just because your question is not added to the public list does not mean that it is lost! We are in the process of compiling question and dare lists for "special interest" groups. These lists will provide more focused content for groups that want more painful, erotic, or alternative content.

W've added a swingers terminology page to help guide you through all sorts of general sexual and swinger terminology.

House Parties where like-minded couples/singles meet in a "swingers" party atmosphere. Party Guide Be wary of 'singles' web sites claiming to also cater to 'couples and swingers'. Couples rarely advertise on these sites. How to tell?... look for exaggerated numbers of members and 'Now Online' or join only dedicated 'swingers' clubs.

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No, the Nude Resorts we feature are not just for swingers, BUT some groups of swingers, who also commonly use the euphemism "lifestyle" groups, DO book large group events at some nude resorts. If you go during those weeks, you will certainly be sharing the resort with a large number of swingers. You may even be approached by others and asked if you'd like to participate - if this is not for you, simply politely decline.